What topics do you think will be discussed in your afterlife?
- How much money you made or how much you gave away.
- How big your house was or how many you housed.
- Whether your work served your soul or your soul served your work.
- Whether you were treated with respect or weather you respected others.
- Whether you were well known or Did know well
- How big your company was or how you treated your employees.
- The kind of car you drive or how lightly you tread.
- How expensive your clothes are or how many you clothed
Choose the latter rather than the former and instead of being taught you will teach.
Recently a male friend of mine said he would never harm a woman. What he meant was rape her. It now time to redefine how we Have harmed them. So men pay attention, PLEASE!
Men its time for us to show up. Yes every man has harmed a women in some way. EVERY MAN HAS!
We have harmed them by forcefully doing anything to them.
We have harmed them by having sex with them when when they did not want too.
We have harmed them by yelling or being any way verbally abusive to them.
We have harmed them every time we used their body to masturbate with. Which is what we are doing when essentially use some one else to get off or get laid.
We have harmed them any time we have coaxed them into doing something to fulfill our needs.
We have harmed them any time they could not feel safe around us.
All of us that are in a position of power, whether a manager,celebrity, speaker or author that slept with a employee, fan, or workshop attendee, was in that moment a predator! And we harmed them.
We have harmed them when look into their eyes and say, “You are my soulmate” then walk away.
We have harmed them when we have had ANY kind of intimacy, then leave, never to call or return.
We have harmed them everytime we have asked a brother if they got laid or did he “DO HER”
We have especially harmed her when we allowed one of our brothers to do anything harmful to our sisters in our knowing or presence. I am especially guilty of this one.. For this I am truly sorry.
We have harmed them every time we have grabbed them to cop a feel, or a kiss.
We have harmed them every time we have shut down and quit feeling in order to “be a man”
We have harmed them anytime we have used our finger for their pleasure without their permission and GUIDANCE. Poking around in their yoni like it was a science experiment hoping to find some kind of orgasmic prize with finger gymnastics.
And yes some of us have even Raped them or molested them.
But all the other offenses are no less damaging than rape.
Now its time to show up conscious and admit we have harmed the feminine, yes all of us. Those who say they have not, be wary because you would be one of the biggest offenders of all.
Its time for us to show up as unconditional love
Time to honor the feminine, not take from her.
Time to be unconditionally present for the waves that show up as the all of the feminine, for she is the all of it. The life flow.
Be so present as to not even blink for a moment.
Showing up does not mean you are in the room!
Being present means you are energetically connected to the feminine and you are feeling, holding onto, and EMBRACING the connection, FULLY, unconditionally, WITHOUT ATTACHMENT TO OUTCOME.
That is an energetic don’t blink. Meaning don’t shift your energy anywhere else while you are in that presence.
Its time, and we better learn.
For the ones that don’t, you are gong to miss them, You are going to miss the women in your life. We are coming into the time of the feminine and they will not be around men like that any more. Bless them for that, I am sorry to say, they have earned a time to feel safe.
It is time. Can you BE safe? can you show up?
With great love for my brothers.
Before you speak ask,
is it true?
is it kind?
is it necessary?
does it improve on the silence?